I'm at this breaking point in my life when i'm realizing that your mom,your friends or your family...they just can't give you all the answers, work out your problems for you. They can't always be counted upon to tell you what the right thing to do is. You have to trust yourself to make those choices..Now,suddenly,all your decisions seem to be on a whole different level from the choices everybody else is making. And you find that you have to trust in your heart and your judgement, and learn to make your own choices,without having to double check from somebody else...
I've never learnt to completely trust myself. There's always this nagging feeling at the back of my head that makes me fear my judgement isn't sound enough and that I need to consult somebody else. But now I find that it's a lesson I must learn as soon as I can...
I've never learnt to completely trust myself. There's always this nagging feeling at the back of my head that makes me fear my judgement isn't sound enough and that I need to consult somebody else. But now I find that it's a lesson I must learn as soon as I can...
You should consult others, but only to guage what your options are - you may choose one of them (it's still down to your judgement which one you choose), take bits of each option, add them to yours, or use them as a tool for realization i.e. "this is what I don't want".
ReplyDeleteTrusting yourself will only increase as you make more decisions on your own; not all your decisions will be the right ones - what's more important is whether you're able to deal with the consequences of poor judgement. Simple :P
i don't deal well with consequences,that's exactly the problem! i have to second guess every single step i take before i actually get down to it =/
ReplyDeletethough i got to give you props,that was pretty solid advice!
ReplyDeleteYou really should write more. (post more is what I mean). The situation that you live in is rather...interesting. I'd want to hear more about it. =)
ReplyDeleteP.S. I was looking at your profile and man you listen to alot of my kind of music, especially Muse (personally I blame Stephenie Meyer for getting me involved with them) and I've recently acquired a love for the Vampire Diaries.
ReplyDeleteIf you like The Da Vinci Code, you NEED to check out "Angels and Demons", the movie was okay, but the book is easier to understand.
P.S.S: Thanks again for following my blog, I appreciate a lot of your feedback and I hope you like some of my future writings.
lol.yeah,i know what you mean.i know stephenie meyers playlist off by heart.I'VE just acquired a love for the vampire diaries too,i barely finished reading the series like a week ago!
ReplyDeletethats cool.ive read all of dan browns' books,including angels and demons.the movie isnt out here yet but ive heard this one is a lot better than the movie version of the da vinci code so im anxious to see it!cant do the book any justice though,the book was A.M.A.Z.I.N.G!
hey!
ReplyDeletei just discovered your blog and gonna become a follower for sure!
i really liked this post because.. somehow.. I think I can relate to everything you wrote. Yes, you are right.. in my opinion I think sometimes the decisions can only be from ourselves and from what our heart says. But I also know how that can be hard.
However, if you ever have a really great person always next to you don't ever hesitate to tell what your decision its going to be and, sometimes, ask their opinion. Even follwing our heart, that may help us somehow. Believe me.
thanks.i appreciate it =)honestly,i think its amazing if you have somebody there who can lend you an ear whenever you need to talk things over and need help making decisions or whatever,but unless you learn to fully trust yourself,none of it will ever make a difference,you know.its got to be all on you,because the day you stop leaning on people and expecting them to work things over for you and the day you realize your friends are there because you want them to,not because you need them to lean on,is the day when you truly become your own person..
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